Thanks for the fascinating details which answer what I was looking for. I have been trying to read an article on the subject at http://www.roumlouki.gr/politismos/...υ-μαντηλιού-στον-χορό-σε-ελλάδα-και-ρουμλούκι.
It seems exhaustive in its detail but does, I think, try to explain its use & significance as regards men & women.
By the way, can you look at my other question--ο χορός της νύφης--& find for me the words of the beautiful song used here.
Your piece of folk culture from the Peloponnese is very interesting. Such folk customs are almost extinct in the UK except in some Hebridean islands & parts of rural Wales. I suppose that TV & the mass media, despite their obvious benefits, have made for a mono-culture & ironed out customs once unique to different areas & villages throughout the land.
A Greek friend of mine from Ios knew a goatherd, who, one day in solitude on summer pasture duty in the mountains, witnessed a dance of the Neraides. When I sceptically asked him-my friend- if he believed in fairies he replied scornfully that they had appeared to his friend as bewitching women, with long dark hair, who danced slowly in a circle & almost stole his wits away. Anyway this spectral vision apparently haunted him for the rest of his life.:woot: